Friday, May 25, 2012

Why me????

When all of us go through problems in life, the only question that we tend to ask is "Why me, Oh God!! Why ever me??" Seldom do we realise God is pestered with this question by all Living beings!! Who knows!!! seeing so many people asking this question, may be even God is thinking "Oh my! my! Why me???"

Even I have asked this question many times. Like all of us, I have been told the usual words "This too will pass!" "The tunnel always ends & there is light out of the tunnel" etc etc. Oh!! for my share, I have said these words a countless number of times. Even to my mom! Life's easiest job is to say these words, while others listen. But the only thing the hearer wants to say to this would be "Oh yeah!! You know everything isnt it?? You should be in my shoes, then I will see what you say!!"

Times may be bad, for very long time, but upon reflection on crossing that, we always feel PROUD of those days. Proud of what we did to cross that path. We may be good in the normal course of life. Maybe getting what we want, will make us proud. But wont that be a monotonous life? How much victory can we take at one time?  We may even end up getting frustrated with that victory. We need a Jhatka man!!! We need a thunder bolt to wake us up from our monotonous life!!!!

We may not be getting what we want. I am not saying the outcome after the dark age will be what you actually want, but, whatever we end up with, we definitely end up more matured, more wise, why! more grown up!! We enjoy life more. We understand the value of people around us. We understand the value of ourselves. We understand our capability. We understand what this life is all about and how worthy to be alive!

God gives us those Jhatkhas to make us realise our worth!! You have more trouble in life?? You are a very worthy person!! More capable than the person telling you this! Doesn't the teacher always scolds the person who gets 99% rather than the person getting 45%?? Why? the person getting 99% is more capable of getting the 100% than the one getting 45%. There'll be no point in ranting over the person getting 45%! When teachers can think this way, do you think God thinks different? More problems, God finds you more capable and thats why YOU!

We may never acheive what we want, but fighting the loss is always such a wonderful journey. Oh! I wouldnt want to miss it for anything!! And when someone else is being God's favourite, the only thing we can end up doing is, pray that they get the strength to face the realisation! Because, may be the path they are taking at the moment is a shit hole! But when they come out of it, they are the WINNERS! Oh! Nothing can be compared to joy that would bring in their life!

This is my sincere dedication to all those people having the life of being God's favourite! We are fighters and will always be the winners. Let us not ask "Why me?" But lets always say....."God...please...Why not me???"